I have asked this question to myself for years. The only good example I have seen is of actor Hugh jackman. He adopted his kids but still.
I had hoped there was shining hope I would of ended up finding someone who was ‘father material’ and had just one child but it just never happened for me. Most men do not want kids anyway. And if a woman falls pregnant, they prefer them to abort.
I do realise that men are suppose to “spread their seed” and impregnate as many women as possible. That’s the nature of how it goes.
I grew up without a dad cause he was not a nice man. He drank and was cruel from what I knew of him. Sometimes I wonder what he looked like. And even though, I was better off having not knowing him I sometimes wonder if even for a minute he has ever wondered about me.
Perhaps that’s why some women attract attention from men who are no good? Not having had a good male role model. Or they attract men who not even good enough to mop a floor .
It would be good to know why there are no real good examples of good fathers. I would really love to know why.
Anyway, just as there is men that were never good fathers, there are women who aren’t good mothers that I do realise. But for some reason sadly,there are alot of men that end up avoiding their share of paying child support as well.
I’ve had alot of times where I have missed having had a father in my Life, but you do realise that it is better to have no father than one that is no good.
Sometimes you see the odd father walking down the street carrying their child on their back or wheeling them in a stroller but not often.
On the upside, I have been lucky enough to have the only best mum in the world. She will always be my true best friend. She is only person that truly knows me well. She knows I would of never dated an alcoholic or a smoker. Or a violent man.
In an ideal world, a child should have both parents. But in alot of cases if the person isn’t good they are better off without in the end.
And there are parents who should never of been parents especially in my eyes if they either don’t pay child support , are violent or they are drug addicts or are an abusive alchoholic.
It would take a real genuine man to want to be a dad. The reality is, most men actually don’t want kids. Just like they don’t want to get married. Why do they do get married when they complain about losing half in divorce? I have no idea why when everything should be 50/50. Why do they get married if thats their attitude? No one puts a gun to their forehead and forces them to get married. I don’t think it’s natural to be with one person for most of one’s life anyway. But women will still continue to say I want to get married and have 5 kids,and, breed no matter what. Well all I can say is good luck finding a man that wants that cause in the end you’ll be the one left to carry it. Lol.
I also think there is a big issue with child support with men. I personally do not understand how a lot of men can be so heartless as to not love their kids . If they do not want kids , then why have them? They should get sterilised.
Well , I am turning in.
Til another day.
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